"When I told people I didn't plan to breast-feed my daughter (I only told people who asked; I'm old-fashioned that way), I met a fair amount of incredulity. "But don't you want to give your child every possible advantage?" I was asked. Not really, I replied. This kid will be born white and middle class in America; she's already ahead of 95% of the rest of the world. Why does she need every advantage?"
- http://mcsweeneys.net/links/bitchslap/bitchslap10.html
Hah! I like that quote!
ReplyDeleteI think you're very brave doing the Mummy thing April. I'm older than you, married, have my own house etc and feel no where near ready to spawn!
I know it's not really as simple as having all the other bits of your life in order and therefore being ready to have a child; it's hormones and nature and shit - but still, I admire people who dedicate themselves to their children. It's the ultimate responsiblity and I'm pretty sure I will never be responsible enough.
Well done you! I hope it all goes excellent for you and that you get a house sorted soon!
Sophie.